06/12/2023

Why Letter Writing Is Always In Style

Summer’s arrival is the perfect time to reengage with letter writing

Letter writing has countless benefits, including gathering your thoughts and showing care via a handwritten note.

The packing list for sleep away camp is as standard as a recipe for chocolate chip cookies. Throw in stationary and stamps and you can hear the cartoon screech happening in your child’s mind. Do they even know how to address an envelope? Where do you get the material to write about? What’s a mail box? And how do you write something without grazing your fingertips across a keyboard? In today’s digital age, letter writing isn’t simply a lost manner that needs to be resuscitated like gifting care baskets to the less fortunate. Letters are testimony to genuine social graces and human connection.

“I definitely believe that letter writing still serves a purpose in the digital age,” says Katherine Kelly, who teaches English at Darien, Connecticut’s Middlesex Middle School. “There is something special about receiving a handwritten note.”

Thoughtful expressions

The act of choosing the right stationery and putting your thoughts into a personalized note shows time and care. Letters are more notable in today’s culture when a handwritten note without emojis stands out among the more typical pieces of mail. “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with embracing the ease of digital communication,” says Kelly, “but taking the time to write or read a handwritten letter brings me a joy that I don’t always experience with digital messages.”

Letter writing benefits

Similar to reading, writing is a cerebral skill that improves with practice. Its benefits are also transformative. Jason Courtmanche, Director of the Connecticut Writing Project and a professor of English and Education at UConn, oversees the annual Letters About Literature contest in conjunction with the Neag School of Education. Participants read a book, poem, or speech and write a letter to that author (living or dead) about how the text affected them personally.

“I enjoy sponsoring the Letters About Literature program because it honors two of the most important things about literacy—writing to an audience and for a purpose, and reading literature to be transformed,” says Courtmanche.

Making an impact

Kevin Daniele, Middlesex Middle School’s 7th grade Healthy Living teacher, worked with an organization that allows students to write handwritten notes of encouragement to individuals recovering from addiction. Despite the students anonymity for protective measures, the students were able to read through the replies and see the impact they had made on complete strangers from their notes of support.

“I know that my students have really developed a sense of accomplishment and community from writing these letters,” Daniele says. “You can see the lightbulb go off about how their letters made an impact on someone else’s life. That was always the coolest part for me.”

It’s fun and rewarding

An essay on the Boxer Rebellion this is not. Letter writing is an opportunity to reflect, gather your thoughts, and creatively express yourself in the written form. It’s a way to relive key moments or feelings and share them in a personal way. 

Letters also move the spirits. Similar to journal writing, there’s a release of emotions and therapeutic benefits that happen when you put your thoughts to paper. 

Getting started

Kelly suggests beginning the writing process by choosing the right friend or loved one. Consider the dialogue you would have in person with these people — the stories you would you tell and questions you would you ask. Most likely you will be writing more than you would in a text, thus employ conversational devices in your letter. “Make sure to greet the other person, introduce yourself if necessary, and say goodbye when you are finished,” Kelly says. 

Just good etiquette

Aside from thank you notes and condolence letters, any just because occasion shows good manners. Etiquette is essentially an ode to treating others with old-fashioned consideration and respect, and letters are its calling card.

The art of letter writing is a classic form of communication with a myriad of benefits. The writer takes the time to gather his/her own thoughts, eloquently write them down, and the recipient has a treasured keepsake that shows care.

It also honors human connection, Not to mention, it’s great for handwriting practice in this digital age.

As the summer season promotes leisure time, stock up on writing materials, replenish your stamps, and make it a part of your family’s ritual to embark on regular letter writing.

Resources

Letters About Literature Contest: https://education.uconn.edu/letters-about-literature-contest/

 

01/23/2023

What Is a French Bob?

Mermaids take note, there’s a new hairstyle securing the beauty glitterati’s attention. The reign of long romantic hair with tendrils that move beautifully with water is giving way to a freer style — the French bob. And once you insert the word French before a term, you know it’s got to be chic.

French bib

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06/03/2022

Summer Accessories that Multitask with Style

When filling up the Denali costs the same as a 2020 plane ticket to Bermuda, multi-tasking summer accessories are a must. Our picks include woven seagrass glassware to fashions and linens that can take you from the beach to sunset cocktails. The best accessories this season perform double duty to maximize summer living.

Wide brim sun hat

Shop summer accessories:

 

Summer accessories resources:
  1. Hofdeco Shibori, 18”x18″ pillow cover 2. Coola tinted sunscreen 3. Sunday Afternoons Montego hat 4. Andrew James Starry Night blanket 5. Lauren Hat Raffia Round with Sand Dollar 6. Mexican Navy Blanket 7. Raya blanket 8. Now Designs Pinch Bowls 9. Harbor view Herringbone blanket 10. Serum sunscreen 11. Boho Skirt 12. Queen bamboo duvet cover/standard pillowcase set 13. Solange stripe kantha quilt full/queen 14. Rattan cage pitcher, set of 4 glasses 15. Sugarloaf cotton throw 16. VFAN Sr. Vintage Air Circulator 17. Carly pants by Paige 18. Glass and marble decanter

 

04/28/2022

Breakfast in Bed? Pass! Mother’s Day Gifts for the Home-Obsessed Mom

For design savvy moms who rather paint a bathroom than be confined in bed with a tray of pancakes, we have the ultimate Mother’s Day gift list. Not only should you save her from courtesy-nibbling a rich breakfast she eats once a year, but give her things she’ll love.

Mother’s Day gifts for stylish moms
jute baskets
Tall Round Jute Baskets:

Forget a mother daughter mani pedi, but three beautifully constructed jute nesting baskets that don’t smell like they came off a cargo ship with livestock will make her swoon. From stowing away unsightly odds and ends to using as trash receptacles, even as a stylish accent, these baskets will become workhorse pieces anywhere in the home. (Baskets pictured with Hook and Loom rug and Indigo and Striped pillow.)

Prices range from $60 – $230

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04/18/2022

Why We Give Flowers on Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day is a time to show gratitude to our ultimate caregivers and treat mom to a day of pampering. What do mom’s really anticipate on her day? Flowers! Arrange for a delivery of her favorite blooms with a thoughtful note attached and that’s a double swoon.

Mother’s Day is arguably the biggest delivery day of the year. The tradition of giving Mother’s Day flowers is a symbolic gesture that dates to the ancient Greeks. They were used in springtime celebrations to honor the divine mother goddess Rhea. During the Middle Ages, Mothering Sunday was established in the United Kingdom and Ireland on the fourth Sunday of Lent when Christians visited their mother church, which is where they received the sacrament of baptism. 

Peonies for Mother's Day

The modern incarnation of Mother’s Day began in 1913 to honor the mothers of earthly homes, the Virgin Mary, and Mother Earth. The tradition evolved to a day when servants were given Sunday off so they could visit their mothers, perhaps attend church services with them, and they picked flowers on their travels home to give as gifts. Flowers represent spring, rebirth, and beauty – all qualities of motherhood.

While flowers have enough loaded symbolism to generate a lively discussion in a lit class, what truly matters, is giving an arrangement of mom’s favorite flowers is guaranteed to make her day.

02/14/2022

Ski or Sun? 12 Must-Haves for your Mid-winter Resort Break

Mid-winter can drag, literally. The holidays are now a memory, Valentine’s Day is just a day, and hygge is losing its cache. There is only so much wood to chop or scarves to knit. Which is why mid-winter breaks were created. Whether you hit the slopes or shed down to a bikini, you deserve something new to add some resort style during your time away.

Spring midi dress

The Charlyle Midi Dress by Perry Walker is a multi-tasking dress: easy-to-pack in wrinkle-resistant silk, stylish and comfortable.

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01/30/2022

Winter Survival Guide

After weeks of below ten-degree temperatures and a Nor’easter that hit on a weekend, embracing winter has become a necessity. You can find inspiration on how to beat the winter blues by looking to the season’s experts. Most notably the Scandinavians who have given winter naysayers hope by following the customs of hygge.

Hygge is an attention to comfort and bringing warmth into the home that resurfaces every winter on illustrated social media posts of a steaming mug of cocoa, fireplaces, and cute mittens. Customs that could be more accurately defined as a guide to winter survival.

5 winter customs to enjoy until winters end
  1. Ice skating: Not just a few rounds in a rink exercise, with the kind of temperatures we’ve experienced this winter, local ponds and inlets have turned into ice cube trays. This means more than free ice skating despite missing out the closing show of watching the Zamboni smooth away the nicks. Skating outdoors is more of an event. Thermoses are filled with hot chocolate. Blankets are packed. You can even bring the dog if they’re an agile breed and won’t dodge other ice skaters. At the pond, you must scout out the right place to launch into the ice. Also keep in mind that there are hazards, like twigs embedded in the ice that could cause a tumble. You’ll also connect with fellow neighbors and share the wonders of winter.
  2. Baking: If anyone’s seen the inventory of supermarket shelves this week, baking and creating food from scratch is not only an enjoyable activity but a necessity. Transform basic ingredients into culinary delights. Enlist family members to make it more fun.
  3. Leisure activities: Have a game night, start sewing, a science project, or a magic show, which makes being snowed in more eventful. Other ideas are to produce a play or concert. Recite poems. Or share a canvas and everyone contribute to the art.
  4. The wonders of snow: Make a snow to do list and check off every activity by February’s end. Here’s our task list: Snowshoeing, cross-country skiing, sledding, snowball fights, build an igloo or, even better, a living area into the snow if it’s deep end. Are all your neighbor’s driveways in need of a plow? Start an entrepreneurial activity for your kids and have shovel driveways for a fair rate. They will have fun outside, learn business skills, and be pleasantly exhausted once the task is complete.
  5. Binge-watch: Find a new show you’ve always wanted to watch. The new season of Ozark could not have come at a more opportune time. Start early because these riveting episodes are addictive.

 

01/22/2022

5 Guilty Pleasures to Do Before Month’s End

Mid-winter may not be a dream, but it could be as engaging as the height of summer if you indulge in some self-care rituals, notably of the guilty persuasion. Look to winter as an opportunity to spoil yourself with the kind of virtuous cheating that’s frowned upon in the more happy-go-lucky months. Food, entertainment and relaxation is encouraged — spoil yourself with a healthy dose of nonsensical activities. Here, we provide five alluring choices:

Halo ice cream

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01/16/2022

Cool Winter Essentials that Are Worth Postponing Spring For

When the highlight of winter chic is an insulated bomber coat in a color other than black, we get why the cooler months get a bad rap for fashionable dressing. We’ve rounded up some great pieces that are so timeless, they’ll keep you warm and cozy for future seasons. Think well made, classic designs, and unexpected colors like winter blues and pastels over the predictable dark shades.

See below for our fave finds:

Resources:

1. The Buxton Cardigan: Cotes of London

2. Hestra Nordic Wool Mit: My Cooling Store

3. Chambray Italian Herringbone Throw: Lands Downunder

4. Women’s Muck Originals: Muck Boot Company

11/05/2021

Everything You Need to Know About Sisal Rugs

Do you get excited when Taschen comes out with a new resort book? Or discover a new way to use matte black hardware? Read on as you are categorized as a design aficionado. A renovating itch you’ve probably encountered is how to upgrade the flooring. A typical scenario is if you redo the floors or go with sisal, which is the rug go-to when creating a clean, classic look.

Living room with gray sisal rug

Living room with a gray indoor/outdoor sisal rug that is both attractive and functional.

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