06/12/2023

Why Letter Writing Is Always In Style

Summer’s arrival is the perfect time to reengage with letter writing

Letter writing has countless benefits, including gathering your thoughts and showing care via a handwritten note.

The packing list for sleep away camp is as standard as a recipe for chocolate chip cookies. Throw in stationary and stamps and you can hear the cartoon screech happening in your child’s mind. Do they even know how to address an envelope? Where do you get the material to write about? What’s a mail box? And how do you write something without grazing your fingertips across a keyboard? In today’s digital age, letter writing isn’t simply a lost manner that needs to be resuscitated like gifting care baskets to the less fortunate. Letters are testimony to genuine social graces and human connection.

“I definitely believe that letter writing still serves a purpose in the digital age,” says Katherine Kelly, who teaches English at Darien, Connecticut’s Middlesex Middle School. “There is something special about receiving a handwritten note.”

Thoughtful expressions

The act of choosing the right stationery and putting your thoughts into a personalized note shows time and care. Letters are more notable in today’s culture when a handwritten note without emojis stands out among the more typical pieces of mail. “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with embracing the ease of digital communication,” says Kelly, “but taking the time to write or read a handwritten letter brings me a joy that I don’t always experience with digital messages.”

Letter writing benefits

Similar to reading, writing is a cerebral skill that improves with practice. Its benefits are also transformative. Jason Courtmanche, Director of the Connecticut Writing Project and a professor of English and Education at UConn, oversees the annual Letters About Literature contest in conjunction with the Neag School of Education. Participants read a book, poem, or speech and write a letter to that author (living or dead) about how the text affected them personally.

“I enjoy sponsoring the Letters About Literature program because it honors two of the most important things about literacy—writing to an audience and for a purpose, and reading literature to be transformed,” says Courtmanche.

Making an impact

Kevin Daniele, Middlesex Middle School’s 7th grade Healthy Living teacher, worked with an organization that allows students to write handwritten notes of encouragement to individuals recovering from addiction. Despite the students anonymity for protective measures, the students were able to read through the replies and see the impact they had made on complete strangers from their notes of support.

“I know that my students have really developed a sense of accomplishment and community from writing these letters,” Daniele says. “You can see the lightbulb go off about how their letters made an impact on someone else’s life. That was always the coolest part for me.”

It’s fun and rewarding

An essay on the Boxer Rebellion this is not. Letter writing is an opportunity to reflect, gather your thoughts, and creatively express yourself in the written form. It’s a way to relive key moments or feelings and share them in a personal way. 

Letters also move the spirits. Similar to journal writing, there’s a release of emotions and therapeutic benefits that happen when you put your thoughts to paper. 

Getting started

Kelly suggests beginning the writing process by choosing the right friend or loved one. Consider the dialogue you would have in person with these people — the stories you would you tell and questions you would you ask. Most likely you will be writing more than you would in a text, thus employ conversational devices in your letter. “Make sure to greet the other person, introduce yourself if necessary, and say goodbye when you are finished,” Kelly says. 

Just good etiquette

Aside from thank you notes and condolence letters, any just because occasion shows good manners. Etiquette is essentially an ode to treating others with old-fashioned consideration and respect, and letters are its calling card.

The art of letter writing is a classic form of communication with a myriad of benefits. The writer takes the time to gather his/her own thoughts, eloquently write them down, and the recipient has a treasured keepsake that shows care.

It also honors human connection, Not to mention, it’s great for handwriting practice in this digital age.

As the summer season promotes leisure time, stock up on writing materials, replenish your stamps, and make it a part of your family’s ritual to embark on regular letter writing.

Resources

Letters About Literature Contest: https://education.uconn.edu/letters-about-literature-contest/

 

06/18/2021

The Ultimate Packing List for Sleep Away Camp

You’re sending your child off into the woods, literally, for a sleep away camp adventure they will hopefully remember with the kind of fondness reserved for pets and holidays. To prepare them with more than labeled clothes, from color wars to s’mores, consider their daily activities and needs so they will be cared for even if you’re not there.

Pack with your child to build on the excitement and review items. (Pictured wearing a City Threads rash guard).

Check with your camp on any specific needs. For instance, some camps provide towels and do not allow vitamins unless they are submitted to the nurse. We also recommend packing with your child so they understand all the items and if they have any questions on their use. For instance, this is a good time to review how to use dental floss or make a bed.

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06/03/2021

Simple Tips to Create a Boys Bedroom with Designer Appeal

If we were to set this boy’s bedroom to music, we’d select The Beatles’ “Come Together.” An attention to mixing prints, customized pieces, and a unification of bold colors elevate a basic boy’s room to a sanctuary with a P.O.V. When designing your child’s room, follow a few simple guidelines and then have fun–this is a place for kids with a penchant for cartoons and Crayolas.

In my son’s California bedroom, the nautical theme set the direction with a modern twist.

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03/26/2021

Give an Easter Basket Everyone Will Love

Bunnies may need to go into an early retirement, we’ve created an Easter basket that will rival those stuffed with neon flammable straw. First, withhold any urge to fill with trinkets and candies marketed on holiday shelves, select a basket you love and will use again, and fill with gifts regardless of what the holiday panders.

An updated basket for timeless appeal.

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03/10/2021

Kids at Home, Bored, Too Much Digital Time? Get Crafting!

It doesn’t get more one-of-a-kind than when you make it yourself. Crafts also come with countless benefits aside from making the envy of all pencil cases. When children come together in a non-competitive environment, it promotes camaraderie. Says Erika Allen, founder of Make Modern, a crafting workshop in Darien, Connecticut, “Kids are really nice to each other when they are in a crafting environment. In our model, everyone is going to leave with something fantastic. It’s different from the way we think of athletics or schoolwork.” Crafting as a group may be non-competitive but there still is that drive for success, the desire to make the best craft you can without the pressure, and everyone comes away with an art project without having a final winner.

Erika Allen of Make Modern arranging some of the featured crafts. We’re loving that penguin.

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10/29/2020

The Ultimate 2020 Guide to Halloween without Trick or Treating

Halloween is definitely spooky this year with a real live pandemic to threaten our tradition. Nationwide towns are advising against trick or treating. Okay, challenge time! So what do we do when presented with Halloween’s version of a bah humbug? Amp up the determination to make the entire day a fun and safe celebration despite the news. Here’s some ideas for a socially distant holiday…

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10/11/2019

Ultimate NYC Fall Rainy Day Activities with Kids

Autumn takes Manhattan is not the name of the latest Muppet caper but what happens when the season grips the world’s most robust city. On a rainy day, the leaves’ fiery ombre colors assume a more industrial tint, melding with the city’s urban culture. Getting around with the addition of a portable umbrella that duals for crowded sky space, inevitably experiencing its demise in a trash receptacle from the havoc bestowed by wind tunnel blows, along with the constant splatter of cool wetness, is a natural deterrent for a city day. Mustering on and you will find a worthy adventure heroes in quests are familiar with. Begin at the top, literally, at Top of the Rock that offers 360-degree Midtown views 70 floors above street level. We swiftly pass through all checkpoints due to the lack of visitors who forfeited to the rain, given a gentle warning by the ticket attendant that sections of the observation decks are closed, and if we would like to continue. We’re game.

 

Westside views with skyscrapers and Central Park grant an interpretation of the city like no other.

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09/25/2019

Hold the Wrappers – Helping Kids Make Healthy Choices

Recent parenting dilemma: Typically happy son races off the bus because it’s the end of the school day. This particular time did not go as smoothly: “Mom! Why did you cut me off of a la carte!” To clarify the context of a la carte, fourth graders not only have Tik Tok and avatars, they have the freedom to buy lunch from a daily menu at school. When I was their age it was a puny carton of milk and cold pizza Fridays. Luc can choose from snacks, drinks and hot meals from a menu that’s available on his school’s website. I can view these orders on the K12PaymentCenter site where, during the first week of school, he bought so many bags of chips I assumed he treated his classmates to a round of Dorito’s. This prompted a call to the lunchroom administrator, who swiftly limited the number of a la carte items per day. Return to the irate son.

Farm fresh foods can be as enticing as processed with the right presentation.

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11/06/2018

Move Over xBox – STEAM Activities Bring Back the Timeless Appeal of Innovative Play

What can engage a child for hours, lights up in a prism of colors and does not involve a controller? KiWi Co’s Tinker Crate, which could be a home’s salvation from video games. In a straightforward box with easy to identify parts, this is not a 300+ piece puzzle where one missing item can turn the entire production into pandemonium, thereby creating frustration (parents included). Children read easy-to-follow directions and assemble projects tested by kids for kids.

A project that a kid can connect with without specialized glue, nimble pieces or an outlet.

In fact, while adult participation is always welcomed, your child may boot you off production because they are having so much fun. They’re also picking up useful STEAM skills without realizing it, so it’s not necessary to harp on the educational benefits because they prefer to be inspired on their own. Overall the project boosts confidence while successfully earning their innovative thinker’s cap.

Want your kid to impress you? Watch and learn!

Tinker Crate

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09/25/2018

12 Shopping Resources for Kids in the School Year

If the architects of the calendar were to create a redesign, the year would begin in September. Households are whipped back into reality, shaped into discipline with school, activities and iPad-free weeks. To keep the structure manageable we created twelve editor-tested resources for kids that includes everything from school necessities to dependable party vendors.

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